Helping yourself

Here are some popular self-helping tips.


Set realistic(not difficult) goals and assume a reasonable amount of responsibility.

By setting reachable goals and developing a plan of action to accomplish them, one can often overcome some of the paralysis caused by depression. Doing this also requires and ability to accept personal responsibility that can aid in recovery.


Break large tasks into small ones, set some priorities, and do what you can as you can.

By taking larger tasks and breaking them down into smaller elements, one can often accomplish more than they might think while depressed. Full projects may seem insurmountable, but when they are made into a series of smaller steps, they can get done.


Don't isolate yourself from the rest of the world.

People suffering from depression often do much better when they are with others and are engaged. This can help prevent a spiral into negative thinking and can provide an opportunity for discussion and the kind of friendliness that acts as a reminder that there is a light at the tunnels end. Depressed individuals should allow others to help them when feasible.


Exercise a lot if you can.

Going to events and happenings, exercising mildly and other activities can help. They work to restore a sense of normalcy to ones life while simultaneously keeping the mind positively engaged and active.


Do not expect too much from yourself too soon. This is very important as depression is not something easy to heal.


Other self-help methods may be:


  • Avoid alchohol
  • Do not make major life decisions(getting married, changing job,etc)
  • Avoid negative thinking
  • Deal with stress effectively.
  • Look after your hygiene, physical health and diet.